Boss bosses around everywhere: let me learn through English phrases

  I am not a dark horse (छुपा रूस्तम). It is not a hearsay (सुनी सुनाई बात). For many, life is like a dream (गज़ब की आसान), but for me life is everything but a dream (कठिन). This could be true because I always live in a dream (आलसी). However, today I wrote a big blog and everything went like a dream (सरलता से हुआ). 

  I worked with many people, some were my bosses too. I found many of them, except a few, were bossing around (अपनी चलाना) me during their tenure, even if they were not bosses.. They were never wanting that I should fly high (उन्नतिशील). Those people who were engaged in eyewash (दिखावा), were apple to eye (आँखों का तारा) for my bosses. I never talked in riddles (पहेलियाँ बुझाना) to any of my bosses. Perhaps this was the reason that they had bossed around me (अपनी चलाना).

  Many bosses and the people, who were bossing around me, were just white elephants (बहुत खर्चीले). They just spend lot of money on unnecessary things. They want to listen from their fellow beings or subordinates even for any invalid assignment as consider it is done (समझो, हो गया). If you are not in good terms with ( बनती नहीं है) them, they will hurl on you for each of your activity with shame on you (लानत है). If the fellow person happens to tell reasons for his actions, they will respond as not to lecture them ( उपदेश मत दो ) or not to talk back to them (जुबान मत लड़ाओ). Therefore,  the fellow person need to play cool (ठंडे दिमाग से काम करो) in order to come out safe and sound (सही सलामत) out of the clutches of his cruel bossing around persons' tenure.

  Since such bosses and bosses like people are having their ways (अपने ही ढ़ंग) of torturing their fellow persons or subordinates, learn, first of all, not to be puppet of them (चमचागीरी मत करो),  at all. Apply your mind (अपने दिमाग से काम करो) while executing a task, and stick to proper rules, even if you follow best practices. Don't ever whisper (कानाफूसी) about them or against them as it will neither benefit you, nor befit you (शोभा नहीं देता है ). 

  Keep everything black and white (लिखित) or supported with evidence, because such bosses or bosses like people do not take much time to call your reasons or explanations as out and out lie ( सफेद झूठ), while their own breaches, if caught, would be termed as it happens (ऐसा होता है). 

  Don't loose your heart (दिल छोटा मत करो), even if they call you useless (किसी काम का नहीं). Always at the allotted time, get to the work (काम पर लग जाओ) and do the work according to your pace, taking care of your body needs like eating, drinking, cleaning and protecting yourself from environment vagaries. Don't panic, even if situation or work goes out of control and explodes. You should not go to berserk (गुस्से से बेकाबू). Rather, say to yourself, "no worries (कोई नहीं)". Ask the situation through your self-determined prayers to let you live peacefully (चैन से जीने के लिये) and allow you to come out safe and sound (सही सलामत आ जाना). Many times, there will be close shave (बाल-बाल बचना) from unwanted situation. Thank thy God invariably ( बिना नागा या कोताही किये ).

  When it comes to point out something unpleasant but valid, then though politely but firmly point it out and place things on record instead of beating around the bush (इधर उधर की बातें). If you are fond of (शौकीन) certain bad habits, then gradually control them because old habits die hard.(पुरानी आदतें देर से जाती हैं) Better proactively think what you want, before someone validates his actions against you and challenges you saying think what you want (तुम्हें जो सोचना है, सोचो), but he is going to take stand this way. As he will be going to act in a way that is going to harm you, don't get afraid of such nuisance creators. It is no use asking such people (उस से पूछने का कोई फायदा नहीं) for any kind of help or reasons because of their bossing around nature. You can't ask them not to be so clever (ज्यादा चालाक मत  बनो) because if you do so, they will stretch the matter (बात को बढ़ायेंगे).

  You pray to God, HE will ask you "what brings you here" (कहो, कैसे आना हुआ). Just then, your problem will say bye bye to you, and thy God will say for your work that "it is done" ( काम हो गया).  Whenever your life is on the line, (जिंदगी का सवाल हो) call your Lifeline, thy God. Don't use your brain (मत लगाओ). HE will never say never drag ME into it. (मामले में मत घसीटो). HE will never say never nag ME. (मेरा सर मत खाओ). Worst people chatter (बकबक करेंगे) about you, they will drag you and/ or your name into (आपको या आपके नाम को घसीटेगे) many controversial issues, and whenever possible,  they will nag you. (आपका सर खायेंगे) Just understand, then, this point that they are crossing their limits. (हद्द पार कर दी है) They are at fault (गलती पर हैं) and not you. 

  At such times, win your heart (अपना दिल जीतो) by sheer perseverance so that your brain complement you that's the spirit, (यह हुई न बात) because your perseverance will do wonders for you. ( गज़ब का काम करेगा ) In doing so, you need not use much of your brain. ( अपना दिमाग नहीं लगाना होगा ) Just take the name of thy God and surrender your problems to HIM. Pray, Wait, Trust... Let me work on myself, for myself, by myself. ..... ... .

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